Devorah Heitner

Author, Screenwise: Helping Kids Thrive (and Survive) in their Digital World

Devorah Heitner

Author, Screenwise: Helping Kids Thrive (and Survive) in their Digital World

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Biography

Dr. Devorah Heitner is the authority that parents turn to for empowering, research-based advice on raising resilient and kind kids in our always-connected, increasingly challenging world. Advocating for mentoring, not (just) monitoring, her keynotes engage audiences with fresh insights about Digital Natives, communication across the generations and what it’s really like to grow up in the digital age.

Dr. Heitner addresses common fears and concerns with research-based, realistic approaches, and a developmentally-focused, tech-positive mindset. Her talks take on common issues ranging from repairing digital mistakes and increasing empathy in our digital interactions to understanding changing conceptions of personal privacy and creating a culture of responsible, digital citizenship. All while validating parents with a timeless takeaway: Your lifetime of social wisdom is powerful, relevant and more valuable than ever. Now, share it to mentor your tech-savvy kids.

A noted expert on young people’s relationship with digital media and technology, Dr. Devorah Heitner is the author of Growing Up in Public: Coming of Age in a Digital World and Screenwise: Helping Kids Thrive (and Survive) in Their Digital World. Her work has appeared in the New York Times, The Washington Post, The Wall Street Journal, and CNN Opinion. She has a Ph.D. in Media/Technology & Society from Northwestern University and has taught at DePaul and Northwestern. She has spoken at schools and corporations all over the world and is a known for her warm and engaging speaking style. Attendees find her talks empowering and relatable and filled with actionable tips on mentoring young people in the digital age. She is delighted to be raising her own teenager and she lives with her family in Chicagoland.

Dr. Heitner has spoken at many national and international conferences including, SXSW EDU, TEDx, NAIS, ISTE, NCAIS, AAUW and to numerous groups of parents, educators, students and employees (at Google, Northern Trust, etc.), consistently earning rave reviews. Described by one client as “engaging, interesting, relevant and collaborative,” Dr. Heitner is lauded for translating the digital world “in ways that honor children and adults, and that offer a vision for nurturing sound judgement and independence as they grow.” Where they once felt overwhelmed, parents and educators leave informed and empowered to mentor children through the increasingly complex digital world.

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Speech Topics

Growing Up In Public

If you’ve ever said “I’m so glad my teenage years weren’t shared for the world to see,” this talk is for you! With social media and constant connection, the boundaries of privacy for children are stretched thin. Growing Up in Public shows parents how to help tweens and teens navigate boundaries, identity, privacy, and reputation in their digital world.

You will learn:

Should you read your kids’ texts?
How to help your kid be authentic when everything can be shared and compared.
Do colleges really stalk kids on social media?

Screenwise: Helping Kids Thrive in Their Digital World

Parents today worry that kids are addicted, detached or distracted because of digital devices. Often, adults are less conscious about what they are modelling with their own relationship with technology. According to Dr. Devorah Heitner, our concern should go far beyond what kids are doing today. These tech-savvy Digital Natives need mentorship to thrive, develop social skills and succeed in a future where they will likely find a job, meet their spouse and build their reputations in interactive, digital communities. Drawing from Screenwise, her popular guidebook for parents and from the latest research, Dr. Heitner provides gems of guidance to help parents become confident digital media mentors to texters, gamers and social media users from preschool to young adult. You’ll learn what it is like for children to grow up in a world where school experiences, family life and friendships are all shaped by digital connection—and how you can share your own lifetime of social wisdom to mentor children to become the best people that they can be.

Social/Emotional Milestones in the Digital Age

First email account. First gaming avatar. First social media account. First smartphone. There are many milestones involved in growing up in the digital age. This talk for professional (counselors, educators and school leaders) informs these professionals about the latest research on digital natives and helps them to appropriately support young people as they encounter and master these digital skills. Audiences leave with a powerful message: Limiting or monitoring technology is no substitute for mentoring and engagement.

Navigating Reputation in the Digital Age (Why Branding Yourself is BS!)

Young people are told to "brand themselves" for college applications and to find work. But people are complicated and multi-faceted. You are more than a brand. Yes, you can look at your digital footprint and put your best foot forward, but you can also resist the attempt to have a perfectly curated life. And you can recognize that your peers and mentors have complex and multi-faceted lives, too. Growing up in the digital age makes social comparison too easy. This talk busts some of the myths of "personal brand" to emphasize the positives of being yourself and recognizing the pitfalls of social comparison.

From Voicemail to Slack, Navigating Different Tech Generations on Workplace Teams

This talk emphasizes how communicating about how to communicate is crucial. Heitner myth-busts the stereotypes about Generation Z and millennial workers and shares the many advantages of intergenerational teams at work.

Can You Ever Unplug in the Remote Workplace?: Finding Balance in the New Normal

The research is in. Always on is NOT the most productive. But the tools and connectivity are 24/7 and for many colleagues, they are right there at home? How can we create boundaries and get the whole team, including leadership, to buy in.

Onboarding Generation Z: Understanding Today's College Graduates

In this talk for recruiters, HR and anyone who hires and trains new and recent graduates, Heitner shares her own research and other data about Gen Z to help understand how to recruit, inspire and mentor this generation for the best results.

Admissions Myths & Realities (For K-12 Parents or For Higher Ed)

Heitner shares her research on admissions to reduce fear and increase understanding of the realities of today's admissions landscape.

Testimonials

“Dr. Heitner effortlessly wove humor into her presentations, captivating the audience, while putting them at ease. She skillfully provided practical everyday tips that left the audience feeling equipped and empowered to implement positive changes in their lives. Parents, educators and students walked away knowing social media can easily be a part of their lives and used wisely.”

- Newman School

"Dr. Heitner was outstanding. Important message, well delivered. Devorah was excellent, I appreciated her perspective and understanding of teens. I would have loved to hear more from Dr. Heitner!"

- Independent Educational Consultants Association

"Devorah’s message was invaluable and should be heard by parents everywhere. Based on this awareness, our teachers are now more empowered in the classroom. We are already beginning to plan her next visit!"

- Director of Innovation & Technology, Gulliver School

"Devorah hosted a webinar for thousands of employees at leading companies around how to make distance learning work for kids during the pandemic. The parents who attended shared that Devorah's guidance gave them practical advice and tips on how to best support their kids - and themselves - right now. Her perspective and expertise on how to guide children in this digital age is what parents need right now."

- Care.com

"I have worked with a lot of speakers, and Devorah is a dream come true. She is responsive, meticulous, patient and above all else: an expert in her field. She made my life so much easier in planning a large and complex event. Her speech was relevant, thoughtfully researched and 100% on topic--tons of our attendees approached me afterward to let me know how much they enjoyed it."

- CIVSA Keynote (Higher ED)

"Devorah was a wealth of knowledge in sharing her perspective on raising our kids in a digital world. She brought a lot of great ideas to the room for parents of toddlers through the teenage years. It was refreshing to hear her point of view about embracing technology in a healthy way for the entire family. She gave a powerful presentation and then had a great conversation during the Q&A. HIGHLY recommend Devorah to inspire a healthy, interesting conversation."

- Head of Industry, Travel at Google

"Dr. Heitner’s talk not only addressed the obstacles that a multitude of digital connections present, she also offered practical advice. Attendees walked away feeling reassured rather than overwhelmed and encouraged to mentor rather than monitor, to understand, instruct and guide their children’s use of technology as they are coming of age."

- Head of School, Oak Hill School

"I was feeling overwhelmed by the technology in my 6th grader’s life; my daughter was accessing online tools and social media sites I wasn’t familiar with, and I needed to provide more guidance in her digital life. After speaking with Devorah of Raising Digital Natives, I now have a framework for keeping my daughter healthy and happy online."

- Audience Member, Hatch Middle School

"Devorah moves effortlessly between a student perspective on the digital world, a parent’s perspective, and an educator’s point-of-view. She focused on building empathy, understanding and ultimately, positive identities. She illustrates clearly how technology exists in a developmental context for every human being, and how awareness of the context, thoughtfulness and transparency can harness the power of technology (including social media) to help children learn and grow. Devorah helps translate the digital world across generations in ways that honor children and adults, and that offers a vision for nurturing sound judgment and independence in students as they grow up in a global, digitized community."

- Intermediate & Middle School Division Head, Francis W. Parker School

"Everyone walked away with a sense of calm and renewed confidence in their ability to mentor their digital native(s). Devorah’s guidance was timely and resonated with our students. This is my new ‘must do’ for the start of the school year!"

- School Counselor, Highland Park School

"I really enjoyed Devorah’s talk. Her style and personality made it engaging, and her academic background coupled with being a mom makes her credible and accessible."

- Technology Facilitator, The Joseph Sears School

"She offered practical takeaways, wise advice, and a lot of great information about social media and screen time. Devorah is an engaging speaker and was willing to not only answer questions from the parents but also to stay connected after the lecture. We were thrilled with her presentation and highly recommend her for any school or parent speaking engagements."

- PTA President, Murray Avenue School

"After watching Devorah speak to different constituencies on our campus, (teachers, parents and students) I'm impressed by her ability to reach, inform and relate with each audience. She offers an exceptional mix of having a highly developed EQ and research-backed content. It's a powerful combination."

- Head of School at Marymount of Santa Barbara

"Devorah has a clear, culturally-based perspective on the digital world in which our children (natives) live and how we as parents (immigrants) can best navigate this world with the most positive results for everyone involved. She combines humor, the latest research and practical takeaway points, all making for a very effective thought-provoking presentation."

- Events Coordinator, Deerfield Parent Network

"The relevant, positive and insightful energy that Devorah brought to over 500 educators will stay with all of us far beyond 2018. We truly appreciate Devorah’s commitment to supporting social and emotional learning for all!"

- Austin Independent School District